Written by Ms. Meniscus on July 14, 2008
You need to talk to him about this. I guarantee he has no idea his "technique" is causing you angst. Be gentle — harsh criticism could hurt his feelings (especially if you've let a long time pass without speaking up before).
Explain it as an opportunity to enhance this part of your relationship. And be prepared: he could have "opportunities" for you he's been hiding as well.