"Emotional Wellness Helps RA" is the title of a recent post on PsychCentral that caught my eye:

http://psychcentral.com/news/2009/08/05/emotional-wellness-helps-ra/7550.html

The incidence of depression among people with RA is twice that of the general population.  An additional study found that when spouses and partners of those with RA are depressed it correlates with a poorer prognosis for the person with RA.

Being emotionally healthy is essential for those who have RA and for their family -- it can alter the course of the disease and supports better pain control.

So how do you become "emotionally healthy"?

What the studies look at is depression -- that feeling of hopelessness, powerlessness and the sense that things will never change.  Other symptoms of depression can be persistent anger, sleeplessness (or always wanting to sleep), or an overall grey feeling -- nothing seems good or worth looking forward to.

These feelings can creep up and subtly worsen over time.  Early intervention is the best way to stave off a more serious bout of depression.

Yet most people don't treat depression.  They hope it will just go away.  They don't want to be whiners, or feel "weak."  Many folks also don't want to take more pills or feel like they have another disease, so they just try to ignore those downbeat thoughts.  They try to "act" cheerful or okay.

The bad news is that this strategy doesn't work.  And depression is wily and tenacious once it takes hold.

Dealing with it early is the most effective approach.  Here are a few ways to start if you find yourself regularly feeling blue or blah:

Talk to Somebody

Find a neutral, supportive person who can listen.  It is best to rely on someone who knows something about depression -- a religious leader, or a medical support person like a nurse or therapist.  Many communities have free or low-cost clinics that can be a great place of help and hope.

Talking to a professional can help you put your concerns in the hands of someone who is an expert in these matters.  You will get lots of good advice and perspective.

Physical Movement

This is free, easy, and one of the most researched tools to combat depression.  I didn't say exercise because that can connote a huge program that feels too overwhelming before you even begin.  What helps is just getting your body in motion.  A short walk every day.  Moving some parts of your body -- stretching, breathing, whatever you can do.

The more often you get your self moving each day, the more it helps.

Humor

OK, you don't find very much funny.  But laughing out loud or a good chuckle lifts your spirits and shifts your brain chemistry.  What tickles each of our funny bones is very individual, so you may have to experiment.  Is it a silly spot on YouTube?  An old movie like When Harry Met Sally?  Jokes from the Reader's Digest?  Jon Stewart?

Give yourself the prescription of two funny contacts a day.

Create Community

Who is in your tribe?  Pain and depression lead to isolation, which makes pain and depression worse.  Where are your friends?  To whom do you talk?  Facebook friends and chat rooms are a good place to begin, but be willing to move on to real-time relationships.  Invite someone for coffee.  Go out for breakfast after church or temple.

I know, you don't feel like doing this.  It's hard.  I get it.  Your cave feels safe.  But you need to get into the world and be around people.  Set a goal.  One outreach in two days.  Then you can build from there.

One of my favorite blogs is The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin.  The other day she had this great line:  "The absence of feeling bad isn't enough to make you feel good -- you must strive to find sources of feeling good."

As always, you are in charge, and your sources of feeling good are particular to you.  Remember it is an active process -- not a passive one.  Follow the practice of identifying what these sources of feeling good are.  You have to be willing to act on what you know and feel.

Depression is tough -- but I know you can take the first step towards healing.

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It's the time of year when we're thinking about vacations.

Maybe you are anticipating going away, or perhaps you've already gone.  Some of us are just dreaming about it.

Vacations are essential for everybody -- and particularly for those who have a chronic and painful condition.  The break in routine, the exploration of new sights, the creation of memories and relaxation all contribute to a healthier mind and attitude and body.

Yet we often put that need aside.  "I can't afford to get away!"  That's our usual excuse.

Whether we can't afford the money or the time or the energy, we give up and put vacations on the back burner in our mind.

The reality is that we don't need to go away for a week or even physically leave our homes in order to get some of the best benefits of a vacation.  We can create "mini-retreats" or even brief mental vacations that can offer us some of the best nourishment of a time away.

To do that, there are a few pointers.

"Set the table."

By that, I mean, put aside a little time and prepare for your mental break the way you would for any trip.  Think of where you'd like to go.  And it works especially well if you choose somewhere you've been and loved.  Using your memory and imagination, recall specific details of the place -- smells, sounds, the slant of the light, what you are wearing ... make it detail rich.

Last year my daughter and I took a brief trip to San Francisco for her high school graduation present.  It was one of the best trips of my life -- and I will never be able to repeat it.  So, I have thousands of delicious details tucked away in my mind so I can take that trip again any time I want!

Put lots of wonderful things on the table.

It's a vacation, remember!  So you get to eat, and put your toes in the water, and feel the sun, and listen to the birds and the wind in the trees -- whatever pleases you.

To ramp up your relaxation, use all your senses.  Eat something, listen to certain music, put out a scent.  Have a raspberry, sniff a rose, hold a beach shell.  The more you stimulate your senses, the more you will relax.  Look at pictures that remind you of how happy a time you had and are having again!

Spend as much -- or as little -- time as you please.

You will get the benefits very quickly.  Your pulse will slow, your mind will unclench, you may be breathing a little more easily, and for sure you will find yourself smiling.

That's what happy feels like.  You don't need to do this for very long.  The effects will last for a while.  When you need another break, do it again.

The best effects happen if we practice vacationing regularly -- every day, or twice a day.
You give yourself a big sunshiny happy vitamin.

That's a break we can all afford and it offers a rich payoff.

Bon voyage!

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I want to share a fantastic story that, while not related specifically to arthritis, is related to the struggle we all have to be our best human selves.

Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor was a 37-year-old neuroanatomist working for Harvard Medical School doing brain research, when she suffered a massive cerebral hemorrhage (otherwise known as a stroke) and, as she puts it, "became an infant in a woman's body."

It took her nine years to recover.

The story for which she wanted to live -- in order to tell -- was about her amazing experience of having the left side of her brain shut down, while maintaining full processing on the right side.

It was a very different sensation.  The right hemisphere is about connection and dissolving boundaries.  Dr. Taylor describes peace, serenity, unity, bliss.  She felt universally related -- a part of everything and everyone.

If you have a moment, watch this fascinating video below of Dr. Taylor discussing her ordeal and her life's work:

NOTE:  You can download audio, video and iTunes versions of Dr. Taylor's talk at the following link:

http://www.ted.com/talks/jill_bolte_taylor_s_powerful_stroke_of_insight.html

Dr. Taylor's recovery was intense and she reflects in her book, My Stroke of Insight  (Kindle Edition), what a journey it is to motivate one's self to do things that are painful and very, very difficult.  This part of her story is inspiring as she recounts her rehabilitation and slow progress -- and how she stayed motivated to continue.

Most compelling to me is her determination that we should all experience the right side of our consciousness, and find ways to "run that circuitry" on a regular basis, rather than solely relying on our left hemisphere to captain our destiny.

In an upcoming CreakyJoints podcast, Seth describes one way to access that feeling.  He did some stretching that aligned his mind with his body -- and he felt clear and open.

For some people it's their creativity that connects them with universal flow.  For some it's a willingness to give.  And for others this happens with mediation, prayer, music, worship, or nature walks.

Whatever opens those circuits for you, I urge you to do what Dr. Taylor suggests -- spend some time relaxing and allowing your right brain to dominate your consciousness.  You will be more peaceful and, through that, you will share that peace with those around you.

This can change the world.

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