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To Work, Or Not To Work ... and How?

Dr. Laurie shares a book tackling jobs and arthritis.

Ms. Joffe outlines some of the major issues that confront anyone who wants to work -- or questions when they are newly diagnosed whether they should work.

Summer always seems like reading time.  Days are longer and schedules (at least in theory) are looser, so there is time and space to catch up on reading.  This is probably a holdover from my school days, but I still like the feeling.

In that spirit I want to recommend a book that came my way.  Rosalind Joffe and I met at an event last month, and she gave me a copy of her book, Women, Work, and Autoimmune Disease:  Keep Working Girlfriend!  (Rosalind Joffe and Joan Friedlander.  NY:  Demos Health, 2008.  demoshealth.com )

Ms. Joffe is an executive coach, and founded a coaching and career practice site cicoach.com to help others with chronic illnesses and workplace issues.  Along the way she co-authored this great book.  In it, she outlines some of the major issues that confront anyone who wants to work -- or questions when they are newly diagnosed whether they should work.

Women, Work, and Autoimmune Disease: Keep Working, Girlfriend! by Rosalind Joffe on CreakyJoints.org | Your Arthritis HomepageJoffe begins with her premise that working is good.  Not only for money, or insurance, but in order to get the more ephemeral feelings -- like being competent and making a contribution.  Her argument -- and it's a persuasive one -- is that working has many positive side effects that can contribute to health and well-being.

But Joffe also knows there is work, and there is work.  She guides readers through the difficult maze of sorting out the right kind of work, and the right workplace.  She helps the reader think about disclosing their illness and the pros and cons of such a decision.

Her chapters go more deeply into some issues -- asking readers to define success for themselves and to look with clear eyes at decisions they need to make.

Joffe is practical and no-nonsense about the realities of the workplace, but her tone is empathetic.  After all, she has the insight of someone who has "walked the talk."

The most valuable story Joffe shares is that you are not alone.  The dilemmas of working when you live with a chronic illness are not just yours to figure out -- many many people (and not just women!) live with these questions and challenges.

We are more knowledgeable when we are willing to share strategies, pitfalls, and triumphs.  We are more successful then, too.

While Joffe's book is aimed toward women (because that is her experience), what she writes about also applies to men -- so you guys can also benefit from many of her pragmatic suggestions.

If you are just beginning the journey, or if you are wondering about what your next steps are in the world of work, this book is a great resource.

Let me know what you think.  And if you have any suggestions for my summer list, please pass them on!

 

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Thanks!!!

Posted by Kati at Jun 02, 2009 11:54 AM
Dr. Laurie,

I was so excited when I read your column about this book that I called my husband right away to tell him about it. He was, of course, supportive. We decided it was something I should buy right away. My husband and I met at work, and then he witnessed my decline and subsequent descision to leave work. He knows how much I want to go back.

In any case, I will read it immediately and then let you know what I thought! And thanks for these nice columns. I always enjoy reading your advice. Your positive outlook always motivates me to see my situation in a different light!

- Kati

Thanks!!!

Posted by Dr. Laurie Ferguson at Jun 05, 2009 09:47 AM
Hi Kati-

Thank you for your kind words and your feedback.
I am so happy to be a connector to some good resources. I think Joffe has a lot to bring to the table!
Warm wishes for your thinking and experimenting with what might be the best work path for you.

Dr. Laurie

Great Timing

Posted by TessaD at Jun 04, 2009 09:24 PM
Dr. Laurie,

I can't agree with Kati more on thanking you on this column.

I am currently struggling with making this decision as you wrote it. I will be buying the book and even reach out to you about this subject shortly.

Thanks, Tess

Great Timing

Posted by Dr. Laurie Ferguson at Jun 05, 2009 09:48 AM
Hi Tessa,
I noticed on the boards that you have a lot going on in this arena.
Good luck with all your decisions - I think Joffe may have some practical ideas for you.

Dr. Laurie
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